There are times when it hits me & I'm heart broken all over again thinking 'how could he have done this to us' but then at other times I can brush it off as an hour with a stranger. This is true whether you decide to stay with your OH or not! Don't let his actions ruin your future! I agree in a way & have come to realize you can't live your life based on what happened in the past. My husband tells me how much he regrets his actions but also says everything happens for a reason.

I too question how many times he's done it before, if he's still doing it now & pretty much that every family memory we've had in the past 4/5 years is stained. Topic: Wife had 1 night stand and pregnant. The typical one-night stand usually occurs when a spouse is away from home, possibly on a business or pleasure trip (not to be confused with a string of one-night stands that occur as a sex addict pursues his or her addictive drive), and occurs as a result of the opportunities afforded in that moment. Forums / Relationship and family issues / Wife had 1 night stand and pregnant. Whether a partner finds out about the cheating or not (some partners would even prefer not to know: if my boyfriend has a one-night-stand, I dont want to. I'm 8 months on and it is a real struggle. This type of affair may well be a one-time betrayal. But ultimately our relationship was in a bad place.Д«efore I knew I was pregnant I was considering forgiving him but the baby kind of took matters out of my hands. My circumstances sound slightly different in that he used a casual sex app and was sober as a judge when he chose to do it. If you doubt both, or at least one of them, then such doubt is bound to poison your relationship from the inside and over time. The sad truth is that trust in a relationship is both a fact and a feeling. I say unfortunately not because I don't want little man but because it feels so sad that he's being born into a storm so to speak. Answer (1 of 4): I was going to answer but John is correct.

We also have 2 kids and unfortunately conceived another baby (due in 5 weeks) 2 nights before he cheated.

Those texts aren't innocent, show that there is flirting with another man in a big way and that there's probably been stuff that has already happened. Give us more details about your situation and marriage. went on a night out (2 weeks after we met for our first date, having been on 4 dates at this point) and got. The re-start button was officially pushed, and I had this one moment to thank. This isn't innocent, a one night stand, or the first time its happened. I caught my husband of 10 years (& partner for nearly 18) having a one night stand in August last year. Had a one night stand whilst dating someone.

Wife had one night stand